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The three of us are STILL having symptoms of covid on a daily basis, and our doc has said don't get around ANYBODY right now because our immune systems are shot.

Doc won't even let us go get our flu shots even though we're REALLY overdue, and my liver enzymes are off from all the meds I was on to get through covid.

Just now one of our outside cams alerted me to movement, and I go out there and my dad is standing there blabbing away with a guy who does work for him.

No mask on either one of them.

The dude who works for him goes into other people's houses for a living.

Seriously?!

Charlie (my uncle) and Marissa have been doing work outside our house for the last week and my mom and I haven't even been able to visit with them because we're being careful about cold, flu, pneumonia (which mom and I have had multiple times), and covid, and you're just gonna traipse out front and blab with a dude in his 30s in perfect health who hangs around people all day and never wears a mask?!

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dad: hey thanks for getting me more water!
me: what water?
dad: the water you left for me on the living room table
me: that's not yours. DO NOT drink that.
dad: why?
me: it's distilled water.
dad: is there something wrong with that?
me: besides distilled water not being good for humans to drink regularly, this water is specifically fortified for carnivorous plants. with fertilizer.
dad: ... okay?
me: humans can't drink it. that's what it says on the packaging.
dad: oh. i already drank about 1/4 gallon of it.
me: i guess i get to look up all the ingredients and see if you need to go to the hospital

- It boggles my mind that men of his age and disposition surround themselves with enough people to take care of them that they can make it to 80 years old without dying or severely injuring themselves.

BTW the water was in completely different containers than the drinking water I get him, I never put his water on the living room table, and I always tell him when I've gotten him more of his water.

Unfortunately for me and my mom, he didn't drink enough to ☠️
(he's an abusive asshole so that's why I said that last bit)
 

UPDATE

Oh and an update to the last post! Because he didn't suck enough already.

He just now came into my room and said "I didn't really drink any of it yet. I just wanted to see if it would freak you out."

This is nothing new with him. Mindgames constantly. He was stupid enough to take the water into his room without paying attention to the packaging, but hadn't actually drank any yet.

With the help of therapy and other people who know how to deal with MNPD (malignant narcissistic personality disorder), I'm learning how to respond so...

My response was "Oh I wasn't worried" and went back to what I was doing.

The less emotion you put into things and the less you let people with MNPD cause events, the less damage they cause and the less they get out of the interaction.

I had already looked up the ingredients to see if he needed a hospital visit, but I didn't tell him I did that. He doesn't need to know I wasted time looking something up for his benefit.